Christmas morning we went to brunch at a friend's house, complete with cinnamon rolls and cheese grits, and then Christmas night my roommate, her mother, and I hosted dinner. Her parents brought a pork roast from America, which her mother cooked up for us. Delicious! I roasted a chicken, and we all made an assortment of traditional sides. We invited 2 Turkish girls who go to church with us, as well, and one of them brought stuffed grape leaves! So it was an interesting feast, but all seemed to enjoy it. We even got to exchange more presents after dinner. Hats and scarves seemed to be the theme.
So what was different this year, you wonder? Well, the immediate difference was that church was both in English and Turkish. We could actually buy any last minute groceries we needed on Christmas day with no trouble, and no one at the stores was wishing us "Merry Christmas." When we went to brunch, the hosting family's neighbors stopped by to see why there were so many foreigners coming to visit, and when brunch was over we broke into some spontaneous Christmas carols, in Turkish, and then read the Christmas story, in Turkish. But you know, I really liked it. It was different, but it was such a warm Christmas. Even when we were fixing dinner, we weren't really stressed out because we knew our guests wouldn't care if we were running a little late. I thought I would be stressed out by visiting with so many people on Christmas day, but I wasn't. It felt so inclusive, so focused on the reason for the season. Maybe I can take some of those traditions home with me.