Saturday, November 22, 2008

Engagement with John

I was originally going to title this post "Cappadocia with John," but I know what you all really want to hear about! Our next stop was Cappadocia, which was where we got engaged, but let me tell you the story in order. I've been to Cappadocia several times, and it's one of my favorite places in Turkey. I really wanted to share it with John, and I thought it would be a good place to get away from all our friends and just vacation for a few days. When I went with my mom, we rented a car and spent a lot of time getting lost. I didn't want to do that with John, so I opted for taking the bus to Cappadocia. We found a hotel in Goreme, a town smack in the middle of some of the best rock formations and cave churches in Cappadocia. We picked one with character, while still having a good price (especially since we were paying for seperate rooms). It had a fabulous view as well! The downside of the bus was we had to travel on their schedule, so we really only had a day and a half there. We got in late Sunday night. On Monday morning we walked the one and a half miles to the "museum" in Goreme, a well-preserved collection of cave churches with an admission fee. John seemed to enjoy the history as much as I hoped he would. Then we got some lunch in town at a place where you sit on pillows and eat at a low table, traditional-style. After that, our goal was to get lost together in the valley near our hotel. The paths aren't always clear, but from any high point you could see the hotel, so we couldn't really get lost. I didn't really know the valley, so I let John lead the way, since I had been leading him everywhere all week. We clambered around some hills and fairy chimneys with assorted small ancient caves, until he led us to the highest point in the valley, a hilltop where you could see for miles. I dug in my bag for my water bottle, not noticing that John was trying to get behind me. When I found my water bottle, I turned around to say something to him, and there he was on one knee with a beautiful diamond-and-ruby band. "Will you marry me?" I knew it was coming this trip, but I was still in shock at that moment. I dropped the water bottle and gave him a hug (and a yes). Then he explained that the ring was a temporary ring (though I do get to keep it), and that the "real" ring was waiting for me in America (he brought pictures to show me). We did a little more exploring after that at another beautiful cave church we saw from our hilltop. Then we headed into town to try to buy a Turkish rug, one of my goals for his trip. When we came in the store, the man looked at how young we were and asked if we had a home. I said "no, but we will, we just got engaged today!" He said "well then I will give you the fiancees' price!" After much deliberation, we eventually picked out a smallish rug at a really good price, our first big purchase together :) Then we went back to the hotel to get dressed up for dinner to celebrate. It got really cold, so we talked the hotel into giving us a ride to the restaurant in their service van that they use to get people from the bus station. The driver was excited that I spoke Turkish, so he didn't seem to mind giving us a ride to and from dinner. The restaurant was the nicest restaurant in Goreme, and the only white-tablecloth restaurant I've been to in Turkey, I think! After dinner we came back, lit a fire in the fireplace in his room, and watched a movie on his laptop. It was the perfect end to a perfect engagement day.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Melissa, I am so happy about your engagement and glad to "meet" John through your blog. I still love reading about what is going on with you all in Turkey. Cappadochia was my favorite part of my visit last year. I continue to pray for you. Debbie Yates (Jared's mom)